How often do you check your child or teens phone calls? Do you know who they are talking to? Perhaps you’ve found some strange phone numbers on your cell phone, your home phone, or your child or teens phone and you would like to know who they belong to without alerting your child or teen.

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The importance of “knowing” exactly who’s calling your children cannot be expressed enough. Read the following information from the FBI public guide…

“Your child receives phone calls from someone you don’t know or is making calls, sometimes long distance, to numbers you don’t recognize.

While talking to a child victim on-line is a thrill for a computer-sex offender, it can be very cumbersome. Most want to talk to the children on the telephone. They often engage in “phone sex” with the children and often seek to set up an actual meeting for real sex.

While a child may be hesitant to give out his/her home phone number, the computer-sex offenders will give out theirs. With Caller ID, they can readily find out the child’s phone number. Some computer-sex offenders have even obtained toll-free 800 numbers, so that their potential victims can call them without their parents finding out. Others will tell the child to call collect. Both of these methods result in the computer-sex offender being able to find out the child’s phone number.” FBI Public Safety guide.

There are many signs that your children are involved in unwise Internet activity. Some of those sings are:

Unexpected mail and gifts from people you do not know for your child or teen.

Sex offenders and predators will many times send letters and pictures in the mail as well as on cell phones. All types of gifts and images can be sent to your kids, nothing is off limits to these types of evils. In fact, offenders have gone as far as mailing plane tickets to entice children as well as teens into traveling far away from home in order to meet with them.

Have you ever noticed your teen becoming very nervous or edgy when you pass by and they are online? Perhaps they take too long answering the door when you knock.

Children and teens who are looking at pornographic pictures and videos or even engaging in sexually explicit text or chat room conversations do not want you to discover what they are doing. They may suddenly turn the computer screen off or even have a quick window showing homework or other non threatening websites on the screen. They will be ready to get off quickly, and you have to ask yourself, “When does he/she ever get offline that fast when called?”

Most likely if they look scared, nervous or guilty, there is a reason for it. This is where having the PC Monitor (free 30 day trial) can help. For more serious problems, it may be time to check out the FBI, and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children:

Your child becomes withdrawn from the family.

No matter how good of a parent we are, our children and especially our teens, become irritated and frustrated with us. This is something that computer sex offenders will use to drive a wedge between children and their parents.

They will use even very minor issues to play to their need for understanding and gain a very dangerous bond with your kids.

Once your child has been a victim of sexual exploitation, conversation etc… they may become very withdrawn and isolate themselves. It is very important to recongize the difference between a tired child or one that is upset over a typical “life” upset, then one that has become a victim of Internet predators.

You may think your child is safe because you do not have the Internet at home.

Asking your child whose number is this or whos number is that can sometimes be difficult for times when it’s most important to know.

Even if you do not even own a computer, you need to realize that your child or teen has access to the Internet. The Internet is easy to access through school, local libraries, at a friends house, and even at local businesses that have free Wi-Fi (wireless) Internet access.

All computers come pre-loaded with Internet and Wi-Fi capabilities. A laptop computer can be easily taken to a location where free Internet services are available. Computer predators will even provide potential victims with an Internet service account to gain easy access for communicating with them.

If you suspect your child or teen has become a victim via the Internet or any on-line situation, you can and should immediately contact your local or state law enforcement agency, the FBI, and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children.